COBWEBS OF RELATIONSHIPS

If asked, ”whats the best flavour life has served you??” every soul indulges into deep introspection and finally the answer is in form of “a bond” that one is blessed with ,be it  “parents”,”friends”,or “the beloved”…

Oodles of thoughts flood in when one has to find that one quintessential piece of his existence. Some claim the bonds endowed to us by the heaven are precious, some believe bonds in form friends and lovers is supreme ,but there is surely no denial that both aspects are essence of one’s existence.

You love, you lose, you hate, you love again!!!  Some relations take you over the clouds, some seem to leave you vulnerable  and solitary. Entangled amidst all these relationships, with pleasure or with regret one still needs to be dutiful and loyal.

I get amazed how so easily friends switch to foes or how “just friends” change to “lovers” and then to “just friends” again!! I never really understood Shakespeare or Shelly but from what I gain of life I too realise that character are the same only the roles change… I guess this is the reason why we do not have veterans to guide us ,when inner self is in turmoil due to various relationship matters..

Be it your true love, disloyal bonds or a mere facade to survive the torment of loneliness, every one builds relations.. some remain forever…some are lost with old calenders.. but each has its own flavour..

I am happy to have tasted some incredible flavours in my life.. and sitting alone I tend to realise how the love from my family & my friends & my beloved tends to outweighs all the hatred I have experienced ever… “I adore all thy flavours, life!!”

Every soul must learn to appreciate the beauty of relationships , for bitter or sweet, they are the real spice of your life..

~भावना..

fRoM tHE cAnVas oF lIfe...

Our lives are blessed with lots of things that make this journey a worthwhile experience..

i have had my fair share of blessings in life, actually much more than i probably deserve  & most of these have come into my world as people, so much so that i get paranoid sometimes that i may lose it all as i wake up from this lovely dream of mine.

Like everyone else out there, it has not been a well-treaded path for me.life so far has been good since i managed to find travellers along the way,sometimes they were competitors who turned into friends,my brethrens..they caught me whenever i slipped,never letting me falll.& i've tried to be of as much help to them as i can be,as much as is in my power.

they say,goodness can be inspired by others but is sustained & guided by the a power inside you.

many a times i've come across people who've made me ponder over my actions & they've had a role to play in the changes that have come about in me,all for the good,for the better.people have influenced me a lot,in varied ways;some i admire;some i wish i could just hold on to & never lose..all have filled my life with colors,so much so that its a rainbow now!& now that i see this picture of my existence,i cant figure out which of these lovely shades was my own color?! i have a thought here.maybe i m not a color among the many shades,maybe i m the canvas on which they are spread.

 

I remember admiring a kite-filled sky..full of lovely colors floating,rising,shining & then disappering from sight..if these kites are the people who decorate my sky,then maybe i'm not a kite among the many..maybe i am the string that is holding them all together.& if life works this way,then maybe for someone else, i could be a color too.. i could be a green for someone,or a white for another person.maybe i hold the place of mighty black in someone's canvas;i dont personally appreciate that color but i realise its not my choice. however i'd really like being a red,it just feels like the correct shade to be..

 

The colors add liveliness to life,they change,some get brighter, some just fade away but all leave a mark of their presence & thats the best part of the painting! 

What colour would u wannna be???

--ऐश्वर्या तिवारी